Singles & dating events in and around San Francisco this week
34 events in the next 7 days (Nov 7–13) in and around San Francisco, 3 of them free. Each links to its original listing. Updated November 7.
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Saturday, November 7
- 1 PM San Jose Lesbian, Bi, Trans, & Queer+ Speed Dating Hobee's Restaurant $17.85-$44.52
- 2 PM The Connection Lab: A Guided Singles Event in San Francisco Mission Yoga $77-$97
- 3:15 PM San Francisco Singles Event: Speed Dating (Ages 22-30) at Coffee Shop Sunset Commons $33.76
- 5 PM Relish | Ages 25-39 | Oakland’s Elevated Speed Dating Experience Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5 PM Relish | Saturday Night | Ages 25-39 | Oakland’s Elevated Speed Dating Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5 PM ⚡ SpeedCalifornia | Saturday Night Ages 25–39 | Oakland Speed Dating Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5 PM ✨ Oakland Speed Dating | Saturday Night Ages 25–39 | Fancy a Go? Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 7 PM Singles Mingle @ Cali Club in Berkeley 21+ FREE ENTRY! Club Cali Berkeley Free
Sunday, November 8
- 1 PM San Francisco Kinky Speed Dating Mixer: Male Dom & Sub Edition The Detour $0-$40.95
- 5 PM Relish | Ages 32-46 | Oakland’s Elevated Speed Dating Experience Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5 PM ⚡ SpeedCalifornia | Ages 32–44 | Oakland Speed Dating Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5 PM ✨ Oakland Speed Dating | Ages 32–44 | Fancy a Go? Iron & Oak Restaurant and Bar $37-$40.25
- 5:30 PM San Francisco Speed Dating for Singles Age 50s/60s ♥ Walnut Creek CA Calicraft $32.78
- 6 PM Relish | Saturday Night Ages 32-46 | San Francisco Speed Dating The Jay Hotel $37-$40.25
- 6 PM ⚡SpeedSanFrancisco | Ages 32-46 | San Francisco Speed Dating The Jay Hotel San Francisco $36.22-$39.43
- 6 PM ✨ San Francisco Speed Dating | Ages 32-46 | Fancy A Go? The Jay Hotel San Francisco $36.22-$39.43
- 7:30 PM San Francisco Speed Dating for Singles Age 32-49 ♥ Walnut Creek CA Calicraft $32.78
Tuesday, November 10
- 6:30 PM 💗 San Jose CA Speed Dating for Singles Ages 30s/40s 💗 The Old Spaghetti Factory $32.78
- 7 PM San Francisco Singles Speed Dating Game Night Ages 30s/40s Iron Horse Cocktails $24.99-$32.78
- 7 PM Speed Dating @ Jupiter Jupiter $23.11-$33.77
Wednesday, November 11
- 7 PM Silicon Valley Speed Dating for 40s/50s. Sold out. The Westin Palo Alto $39.19-$49.87
- 7 PM South Bay Singles Speed Dating - Millennials and Gen Z Molly Magees $0-$55.17
- 7 PM Speed Dating @ The Lodge | Ages 26-45 | Bay Area, California The Lodge $38.90
- 7 PM Speed Dating Event | Singles Ages 26–45 | The Lodge | Oakland, CA The Lodge $32.70
- 7 PM Speed Dating for Young Singles | Dating Event - Ages 26 -45 | Oakland, CA The Lodge $33.57
- 7 PM Speed Dating Night | Singles 26–45 | Oakland, CA The Lodge $33.57
- 7 PM Speed Dating | Bay Area Singles Ages 26–45 | Oakland, CA The Lodge $33.57
- 7 PM Young Professionals Mixer Meetup Molly Magees Free
Thursday, November 12
- 6:30 PM The Feels SF, Level 2 ed 2: a hand-matched IRL evening The Portal Marin $223.31-$250.84
- 7 PM Date Night @ Elixir Saloon | Cityswoon | Ages 32-44 Elixir Bar $43.45
- 7 PM Singles Mingle Karaoke Night in San Leandro 21+ FREE ENTRY! Danny Murry's Irish Pub Free
Friday, November 13
- 6 PM Match Me if You Can: The Blue Line Matchmaking Experience 2026 The Love Potion Library - Books
- 6:30 PM San Francisco Speed Dating for Singles Age 44-59 ♥ California at Alameda Brewing Alameda Brewing $0-$32.78
- 8:15 PM San Francisco Speed Dating for Singles Age 26-45 ♥ CA at Alameda Brewing Alameda Brewing $0-$32.78
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